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What Does Anal Sex Feel Like? An Honest Answer
Almost nobody describes it as friction. They describe pressure, weight and fullness, and a first minute that is strange before it is anything else.
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What Does an Orgasm Feel Like? Honest Answers, and How to Tell
Nobody can hand you their orgasm to compare against yours. That is why so many people quietly wonder whether what the...
What a Male Orgasm Feels Like: The Two Phases Nobody Explains
Orgasm happens in the brain. Ejaculation happens in the pelvis. They usually arrive together, which is why almost eve...
Thinking About Someone Else During Sex: What It Actually Means
A passing image is not a decision. The distance between your brain producing a picture and you choosing anything at a...
Talking to a Gynaecologist About Sex: How to Get a Straight Answer
A doctor who moralises at you instead of examining you has not given you care. That is a failure of the consultation,...
Taboo Sex Topics: What Is Actually Rare, and What Just Feels That Way
The thing you have never said out loud is probably sitting in several hundred million other heads, equally unsaid.
Sleeping With Someone New: What to Say Before, During and After
A first time with someone new is a first draft. Almost nobody's first draft is their best work, and it tells you very...
The Sex Flush: Why Skin Warms During Arousal, and Why Plenty Does Not
A flush is a plumbing detail, not a scoreboard. It tracks blood vessels and skin, and it says nothing at all about ho...
Sex Appeal: What Actually Makes Someone Attractive
The most magnetic people in the room are rarely the most conventionally good looking. They are the ones who seem at e...
Sex and the Five Senses: A Fuller Way to Feel Everything
Sex is not a performance to get right. It is a stream of sensation to pay attention to, and you have five ways in.
Sex and Social Media: Comparison, Privacy and Real Intimacy
Your feed shows you other people's best twenty seconds. Then it asks you to hold an ordinary Tuesday up against it.
Setting Boundaries: What a Boundary Actually Is
A boundary is not something you make another person follow. It is something you follow.